Gen Z’s newest occasion development in India

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What involves thoughts while you consider an enormous fats Indian wedding ceremony?

Dazzling lights, glittering outfits, Bollywood hits, a lavish unfold of meals and an environment soaked in celebration. Every little thing feels extravagant, emotional and bigger than life.

Now think about all of that with out the bride and groom. No pheras (a Hindu marriage ritual the place the couple takes seven rounds round a sacred hearth), no family members, no tearful farewells. Simply the occasion.

Welcome to the world of pretend weddings - a rising development in Indian cities the place individuals collect to benefit from the wedding ceremony occasion, minus the precise marriage.

These ticketed occasions, organised by inns, golf equipment and firms, are designed purely for enjoyable and promise to supply the complete expertise of a marriage occasion with none stress, rituals or obligations. Merely put, it is a wedding-themed occasion evening.

Over the previous few weeks, pretend weddings have been making a splash in huge cities akin to Delhi, Mumbai and Bengaluru. The attendees are often younger individuals trying to get pleasure from an evening out with associates, indulging within the drama and enjoyable of a standard Indian wedding ceremony with out the attendant pressures.

Final week, we attended one such curated occasion in Delhi - a pretend sangeet (a sangeet is an evening of music and dance often held just a few days earlier than the marriage).

On the occasion, held at a luxurious membership, the vibe was electrical: girls twirled in sequinned saris and lehengas (lengthy skirts and blouses), males confirmed up in tailor-made kurtas and ethnic jackets. A standard dhol drummer led the group to the dance flooring and tequila-filled gol gappas (a well-liked Indian road snack) made the rounds.

Shivangi Sareen, who attended an occasion like this for the primary time, discovered it "wonderful".

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"At household weddings, there's a lot stress - the principles round dressing up, the judgement [from relatives]. However right here, it is simply enjoyable," she mentioned. "Particularly as a result of we bought to do all of it with our associates. We determined our outfits the day earlier than and bought prepared collectively."

Ticket costs usually begin at round 1,500 rupees ($17; £13) and may go as much as 15,000 rupees or extra, relying on the venue and amenities. Shivangi and her associates paid 10,000 rupees per couple to attend.

"I would not thoughts spending this as soon as a month. The entire expertise was completely price it."

Sharad Madan, proprietor of a restaurant which hosted the occasion, says the development underscores that novelty is essential within the hospitality sector.

"We now have to maintain doing one thing new for our patrons," he mentioned.

It price them round one million rupees to plan and organise the occasion, Mr Madan says, and the staff anticipated to make double that by ticket gross sales. Nevertheless it's not nearly earnings, he says.

"It is about engagement. Even when it would not give me the identical type of returns, I might nonetheless do it as a result of our patrons need one thing totally different."

Kaushal Chanani, co-founder of 8Club occasions which hosted a pretend wedding ceremony occasion attended by 2,000 individuals in Bengaluru final month, says that the inspiration for pretend weddings got here from younger Indians dwelling overseas.

"Individuals from the diaspora would collect and dance to Bollywood music, gown in ethnic [traditional] garments and benefit from the night," he mentioned. "That is the concept we adopted as properly."

The response to the Bengaluru occasion, held at a five-star resort, was "overwhelming", he says. It inspired them to plan an identical occasion in Delhi - which was offered out - they usually began getting queries from occasion organisers in different cities akin to Jaipur, Kolkata and Lucknow.

"We now give out our normal working process (SOP) to people who find themselves ," he says. "It's a information on tips on how to create the expertise, promote it and make it worthwhile."

Nonetheless, not all pretend weddings observe the identical script.

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Third Place, an experience-based start-up, just lately hosted a sober sangeet in Bengaluru - no alcohol, only a themed celebration.

"We divided attendees into groom and bride's groups and organised video games like charades and guessing who the relative is from a stereotype," mentioned CEO Anurag Pandey.

There have been dhol drums, a grand welcome for all friends and even astrology-themed video games. Alcohol was intentionally neglected.

"Typically booze takes away from the expertise," Mr Pandey mentioned. "We needed to do greater than only a pub evening or a daily takeover. We needed to showcase the spirit of Indian weddings."

Commentators say the recognition of those occasions displays younger individuals's rising need to seek out causes to have a good time.

"Individuals want a hook of some type… an event to have a good time. And there is no higher setting than a marriage, which brings collectively all the weather of enjoyable," says author and social commentator Santosh Desai.

"It is the top of enjoyment - particularly when it is free from the stress that accompanies actual weddings."

He additionally factors out that these occasions give individuals a purpose to re-wear costly wedding ceremony outfits purchased up to now.

So, are such occasions right here to remain?

Occasion planner Vijay Arora, founding father of Delhi-based Touchwood Occasions, believes pretend weddings are presently a fad - however one with potential.

"Gen Z undoubtedly needs to be a part of such celebrations," he mentioned.

"If it emerges as a brand new market class then it may be a serious sport changer because the scale will improve - which finally amps up enterprise alternatives for the whole trade."

India's wedding ceremony trade is estimated to be price round $130bn, in response to funding advisory agency Wright Analysis.

Whereas the sector is booming, there are constraints. Most weddings happen through the cooler months - usually between November and March - and sometimes at auspicious occasions, whereas the monsoon season (June to August) is taken into account low season.

With venues free, distributors out there and other people continuously chasing experiences, pretend weddings may step in to fill the hole if the development holds.

Mr Arora says he was shocked by the rise of pretend weddings.

"Nevertheless it additionally helps in understanding that such occasions are one thing that we wish to have a good time or be part of. Even when we won't attend the actual occasions our associates or household host, we nonetheless wish to expertise them by becoming a member of these pretend ones."

Nonetheless, not each visitor walks away thrilled.

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Srishti Sharma, a 23-year-old Bengaluru-based advertising and marketing skilled, mentioned she was underwhelmed by the one pretend wedding ceremony she attended.

"I've lived away from house for just a few years now and I actually missed attending a marriage," she mentioned.

"The largest plus was not having nagging family members telling you 'you are subsequent in line to get married'."

Ms Sharma and her associates spent hours selecting outfits, however the occasion fell brief.

"They started with EDM and switched to Bollywood solely after two hours," she mentioned.

"We anticipated wedding ceremony meals however bought pizza and fries - no dessert, simply alcohol. The decor was primary and felt lazy."

Some have criticised the occasions, saying they may come throughout as trivialising conventional Indian occasions and values.

However Vidhi Kapoor, who attended the pretend sangeet in Delhi, disagrees.

"It may need been offensive had individuals been requested to decorate up like a bride or groom however right here it is only a occasion, we must always take it in excessive spirits," she mentioned.